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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok well first of all, you can forgive yourself for your dumb past mistake. No contact, forget about it.

Second, stop having more kids!!!!!!!

Do you work? Are you dependent on him for income? If you are a SAHM consider getting a PT job to develop your own identity. This is good for all of you.

You need to talk with him about dividing you some responsibilities; much easier to do if you work a little bit. [/quote]

OP here.

Correct, we haven't spoken (read: texted since Fall '23). I just abruptly stopped and never continued. He also stopped because I think he also realized I was ashamed (I even told him this at one point) and that I wasn't about to up and leave my husband for him. I think we both understand that while we have a lot in common, we aren't getting together.

I haven't worked outside the home in 8 years so it will be a challenge getting a job again.

In fact, over the years I have said I wanted to work PT but husband has always shut it down, saying I won't make enough to make it worth it and it will just take away from me raising the kids.[/quote]

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