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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you have a job? [/quote]

OP here.

No, I quit my job once we had our first. It's been a long time since I've been in the workplace.[/quote]
This is a hard one.

He's not willing to change, so what are you willing to do?

If you tell him you are thinking of divorcing him because he doesn't seem to care to be a part of the family, then what would be his response?  Do you have family you can rely on?[/quote]

OP here.

He has said he does care, etc but we all know it's actions over words (I haven't said I am thinking of doing so, but we argue about being mentally present so that reply comes up a lot).

What would I be willing to do? Yeah, it's scary to walk away after being with someone for half of your life.

My family is local but the shame from them would kill me, I think.[/quote]
rock and a hard place.  Either live with that shame or live with a husband who doesn't seem to want to be present in your lives and suffer that.

My sister went through something similar. She eventually divorced with a 1 yr old. It was tough, of course, but she relied on our parents.  She got over the shame.[/quote]

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