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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, OP, this is hard. My very challenging 6 year old was about to be diagnosed with SN and was struggling a lot and my husband and I had two diametrically opposite approaches to addressing her challenges, mostly due to being raised by very different families. My husband was too reactive and I was too soft. I was always convinced I was in the right because I read parenting books and had been doing a lot of work with DD therapist. But it DOES undermine your spouse. I think there are times you do it anyway but you can’t do it often so you have to be really really convinced that if you don’t interfere it’s going to be really problematic. I honestly don’t know if this was one for your kid or not. If my younger kid was crying that would be super unusual and a sign something was wrong. Not necessarily my older one. We ended up taking a parenting class together to try and be more on the same page. For my kids aligning our approaches was really helpful. [/quote]
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