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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you both? You both sound too immature for a serious relationship.  [/quote]

She sounds like the mature one. Not OP. [/quote]

Hardly.  Once she recognized the relationship no longer served her and got confirmation through their most recent fight, she left.  That's adulting.  [/quote]

I know. I’m agreeing with you lol. [/quote]
Op may have read immature instead of mature in your post. But I agree with both of you! Gf tried to communicate her needs, op picked a fight by being condescending and petty, gf realized there is no real future here and peaced out. Queen! [/quote]

Did she really peace out though? OP kind of forced her hand to breakup with him because he was trying to breakup with her.[/quote]
I don’t even think op was trying to break up. He thought she was the one. Hes just immature and doesn’t know how to communicate. He writes multiple times in the op that he thought they’d moved on from X fight. He seems to lash out when confronted with any of his own faults. He probably thought they’d fight again, get over it and move on. Even him texting her the random trinkets she forgot was another way he tried to pry the door back open.

I’m not sure if these traits were present in his marriage, but he needs to do some introspection or therapy before dating again. [/quote]

I’ll preface that I’m not the brightest when it comes go deciphering human behavior (I tend to only surround myself with straight shooters). How was texting her about her jewelry trying to pry the door back open? You should ask if the person wants their things back as it’s the right thing to do, no? [/quote]
It’s just another way to get in contact and keep contact. I wasn’t there obviously, but in my own experience what I’d think happened is he cooled off, realized how bigly he f***ed up, didn’t expect it to go that far. Saw her items and used it as a way to reach out and test the waters. If she hadve been receptive he may have taken it as a “sign” that she still wanted to be together.

I can’t remember if it was in here or reddit, but I read one story about a man obsessing over his ex gf leaving half a bottle of shower gel in his bathroom. He thought that by her leaving it there she must have meant for him to contact her about it and they’d reconcile and it was all part of the plan. Everyone responded to let it go and throw it away lol.

It’s just one of those “things” people do.[/quote]

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