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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you all do about schedules and having friends/SOs over? We work and need to get up. Kids work in the afternoons fwiw.

The issue is college age DS' GF of 6 mos (from the same town)  is over ALL the time. While she's pleasant and they're mostly quiet, except for last night's shuffling around at 4am, we would like our house back. She is a year older, not in college and doesn't have much going on which is another issue.

We don't allow sleepovers since I don't want another person in my house in the mornings and request that they leave/come home around 1 or 2am. They forgot again and slept over.

What's a reasonable compromise?[/quote]

You didn't mentioned your "adult" kid's age or if he's in college (making it a temp. thing) or if he's an adult kid just working and living at home.

I think the expectations should have been placed before the girlfriend started coming around or early on to avoid these issues. However, you need to be firm right now. It's plain disrespectful.  [/quote]

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