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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  What could be some examples of something about my personality that the other women don't like?

Also, if they really don't like me, why do they accept all my invitations?  I would think they would make up an excuse and decline them.

Here is an example:  I have invited my son's best friend and his mom to meet up with us for fun activities (mini golf, movie, bowling, etc.) about 10 times in two years.  We always have a nice time chatting but she has never invited us to do anything.  I have also invited her 1:1 for lunch several times.  Again, she has never invited me to do anything but accepts my invitations.  How do I interpret this?[/quote]

I wouldn’t assume that there’s anything about your personality that they dislike — more that they have full lives already, and don’t have the time or energy to initiate things.  She’s happy to hang out with you — when you make the effort.  That —to me —says more about being at a stage of life which includes multiple demands, and not having the bandwidth/desire to do more things that take effort.m[/quote]
She has been trying for 10 years. That’s a long time. She never had any close friends in her life. It’s hard to imagine that the problem is only that the people she meets are busy.

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