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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm trying to process this. The 22 y.o. is a graduate student on the other coast, in my STBX's field. That's his spiel, talking up women in his field online, offering his "help." She looks exactly like me in my twenties.

We have been separated for three years, with no intent of divorcing due to financial entanglements. Plus, it is convenient for him that I continue to take care of everything. We have a 15 year-old daughter who lives with me. He lives 3 hours away close to his job, in a remote area. We own jointly the two very nice houses in which we live.

Now he dropped the bomb that the young woman is going to visit him for a "crash course" in his field, and he wants her to meet our daughter.

I am almost 13 years younger than him. When I met him 20 years ago, he was about to turn 40 and looking at women in their early to mid-twenties. This hasn't changed.[b] I don't know how to handle this.[/b]

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Move on with your life and don't obsess or be jealous about his.

He must have been a hot guy to pull a 22 year old woman at 59, so you should be proud of that fact at least. Also that he likes a girl that looks like a younger version of you, says he isn't really over you, so just smile and move on.

Find you a nice mature man if you aren't wanting to have more kids, and then when you have get togethers your Sean Connery type man can call your ex "boy" and "scooter" and lord his maturity over your ex. :D[/quote]

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