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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has gained 30 lbs over the last 6 years a combination of stress and depression to a combination of things loss of his father, a health scare and job change loss/ job change. I haven't said anything because obviously gaining weight was not the most important thing. I understand that he's 43 and some weight gain is inevitable but in addition to the health concerns he's slipping into the territory of becoming less physically attractive to me. How do I bring this up in a way that's not hurtful to him or our relationship.[/quote] Why bother? He's unlikely to lose the weight, and in fact will probably just gain more (as he ages even more). Are you really happy with him like this, or could you do better? You don't find him attractive anymore. Why waste time? Just dump him and move on to something better.[/quote]
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