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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can anyone explain the type of person that you meet and they are very friendly and invite you to events but then make a comment about their life or their kids almost as a way to feel out if you will act the same as them and if you remark anything that is your own behavior or thought that doesn't exactly match up and then they ice you out? I've met several of these women and it is so strange. We've just met. Why would you think I'd think exactly like you?

One example. We were walking our babies around the block for our first meet up per her invite and the mom remarked that she didn't care if her baby grew up to be sporty or not. I honestly replied that I loved sports and would love if my child grew up to be sporty but of course would follow my child's lead. The mom iced me out for years, is one of the most competitive people I know, and her kid grew up to only do sports. He's a jerk to other kids in sports too putting down kids even when playing pickup.

How was I supposed to know that her lead was something I was supposed to reciprocate in order to be invited into her world of friendship? So many tests. People are so weird this way.[/quote]

Do you even want to be friends with this person? She doesn’t seem like your type.

I’m a quick friend cutter, because in middle-age, I’ve learned to identify the friendships that fizzle and become work. I don’t need more work in my life. Everything in my life is work: work, housework, parenting, elder care. My friends are a break from work. This woman just sounds like more work.[/quote]

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