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[quote=Anonymous]This is one of those toxic inter generational things I hope I’ve broken for my daughter. It took a bit but my husband does all of this now. Well all of the stuff that happens and I simply exist outside of it. Likely people wish more happened or some things were different and they are aware that I could choose to be more involved and I am not. That’s fine, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I am entitled to not be bothered by it one bit. I do help identify good weeks for visits and trips my in laws might like to join us on but that’s because I run our entire schedule. Also my kids love their cousins like crazy and helping keep those relationships alive is really important to me and to them. To me that is different than expecting me to go do shopping or cooking or whatever that my husband can do equally easily. I do expect him to do all the actual communication with his own family though.[/quote]
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