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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Religion didn’t hurt your child, your child’s choices hurt your child. [/quote] I think this is the difficulty of OPs predicament that she cannot see from the perspective of a religious person. OP wants everyone to elevate her daughter’s choices above their understanding of Biblical teachings. And they are saying no, we can’t just nod in agreement with you when you tell us that sinning is good. And that’s the issue, OP. You don’t believe that practicing homosexuality is a sin and therefore it isn’t an issue for you to accept your daughter’s ongoing choice to be in a lesbian relationship. But if you DID believe that the Bible tells us that this is sinful (as your son and his wife and her family clearly believe) then it would be unthinkable for someone to ask you to not only accept that they will be continuing to choose to sin but you also need to embrace and celebrate the sin! It’s kind of a crazy expectation. Christians believe we are all sinners and are given grace and forgiven if we confess and repent. But taking pride in our sin and calling sinful nature GOOD and embracing what the Bible says is sin…it’s just not compatible with following Christ. I promise you that—from their perspective, they are objecting *because* they love her…not because they have deemed HER unworthy of love. God calls us to be joyful in our obedience to him. They are praying that she will derive joy from confessing her sin and being obedient to God instead of from indulging her own temptations to sin. I’m not saying that this is MY belief or even that it’s a correct one. Just laying this out in hopes that you, as a non-religious mother of both your daughter and your religious son might be able to get a glimpse into his perspective. [/quote] Oh utter BS Religion is a cult Bible thumpers are ignorant shits most have never read a bible. They would rather hate than love For many Christians, one of the most frequently first-asked questions on this topic is, “What does the Bible say about attraction to someone of the same sex?” Although its unlikely that the biblical authors had any notion of sexual orientation (for example, the term homosexual wasn't even coined until the late 19th century) for many people of faith, the Bible is looked to for timeless guidance on what it means to honor God with our lives; and this most certainly includes our sexuality. As New Testament Scholar Daniel Kirk has pointed out, Christians today would do well by the tradition of the apostles and our current witness in the world to recognize that theological abstractions aside, God has already clearly embraced LGBTQ+ people into full communion, and it is now the church’s responsibility to simply honor that reality and rejoice (Luke 15).[/quote]
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