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Reply to "Milestone birthday and almost no one remembered"
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[quote=Anonymous]I would try being vulnerable and asking for what you want. I just turned 45 and I'm going through a divorce. Normally my stbx would have planned a party, but now it's just me. A few girlfriends offered to take me out on what would have been our 20th anniversary so I know I have friends who would look out for me, but it felt like a lot to expect someone else to plan and host a party, you know? I'm sure my closest friend would have if I'd hinted at it. But instead I just put together an evite for a happy hour and a hang at my house. It felt a little hard tbh. I felt vulnerable. But I did it! If you want a party, make it happen. When you are taking your friend out for her birthday, mention that yours is coming up and you don't know if you should have a party or what. See what she says. At the very least she'll encourage you to have one for yourself; hopefully she'll offer to help.[/quote]
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