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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you have contact to former owners?  Can you contact them and let them know what is going on?  How do you know they gave him the house and just not letting him live there?  Some parents allow it if you do proper upkeep or pay rent.

My mom owns a beach home, neighbor died, two kids inherited.  One kid let their adult "child" (40s!) move in during Covid. What a mess.  Crap in the yard, put in a makeshift firepit within feet of a building on my mom's property (not allowed), screaming, fights with random men, it is awful. Awhile ago the cops kept showing up and she was screaming and throwing crap out to some guy who she let move in. Adult child is a nightmare, clearly has issues and sends my mom nasty emails with the adults who own it (dad and uncle) on copy.  My mom finally replied to the email and mapped out what an awful neighbor she was.  My mom explained she would deal with the owners but no longer the adult child who inhabits the home.  The owners didn't respond. My mom has landscapers since she isn't there always and this person harassed the landscapers so much they quit.  She said she would call ICE (they are citizens but WTH) on them.

It is a small private street where the neighbors all know each other and never had an issue like this before.  The year-rounders watch out for the people who don't live near round (including paying them to check on homes etc).  I have known basically everyone on the street my entire life.  It is awful, but the owners refuse to do anything about it  and just let the adult kid create havoc!

I have elementary kids and this person has random people coming and going all the time. I don't feel comfortable with my kids roaming on their own because of the random people always around and broken crap in the yard, etc. [/quote]

It's really sad all around. The parents are between a rock and a hard place: they cannot change their child with serious mental problems, and don't want to have them die in the street. Meanwhile, the neighbors suffer.
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Sell the house and  put him in a much more manageable condo and have a cleaning service come in every few weeks to clean up the inside.  We  did this with my alcoholic brother in law and it is the best thing to do.  The local cops and  bus drivers keep an eye for him if he passes out between the nearby shopping center and his condo. The cops will either take him home or the bus driver will alert a cop to do the same.  He is beyond rehab or any type of help.  We are letting him live as he wants.[/quote]

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