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[quote=Anonymous]He definitely won't learn if he doesn't have to. So schedule yourself a thing. Twice a week, or whatever, you go to the library for your book-club-of-one (or you go grocery shopping or whatever-- this is up to you) and leave him with the baby. Tell him that this is to help him become more independent! Show him some of the million tiktoks about fathers with new babies, and the comments where the women are all swooning over the hotness of a man taking care of a tiny infant. Jazz him up. And then let him do it. Agree with PP that babywearing is good. It really takes the fear out of holding a tiny fragile floppy baby. Try a variety of carriers. My kids' dad liked a cheap snugli. I preferred an ergo. You can post on any parents or neighborhood listservs to borrow and try some out. [/quote]
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