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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has always been very respectful but he said something I took very insensitive. I was eating and he said “ wow..you’re eating again..all of that”. I do eat a lot and still have a good amount of weight to lose while breastfeeding our almost 2 week old. I don’t know how he intended it but it really felt insensitive and hurt my feelings. He insists he didn’t mean anything by it. [/quote] That was really mean and insensitive. Those words aren't OK when you are healthy and "normal" and they certainly are not ok when you are breastfeeding. Recovering. And sleep deprived. Rather than insist he didn't mean anything by it he needs to look at himself and his actions/words and find a sincere apology in there for you. Even if he didn't mean anything he needs to want to not hurt you, and go out of his way to be kind (and that goes the other direction, too. You also need to not want to hurt him and go out of your way to be kind). [/quote]
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