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Seriously, I feel like the monster Demi Moore turns into in The Substance. 
I'm unapproachable. People tell me it's fine and such but that is no help.

I just want to know what the problem is. I'm not on apps and at this moment I go to work and come home.
A couple years ago I went out more with friends, but nothing happened.

I am outside of my home for 12 hours a day. It's just not happening for me or maybe I am doing things wrong?
No man has shown interest in me ever.

Everyone I know is engaged or married  :(

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Three points:  1. Are there things about your physical appearance that might be disincentivizing men from approaching you? I ask that without judgment, but if so, it’s a different kind of problem that likely calls from different kinds of solutions, and if you’re serious about finding someone, its best to be truthful with yourself about that. 2. Assuming the answer to 1 is “no,” you need to treat this as a networking problem.  Do you have casual acquaintances you can mention [b]“hey, I’m looking to meet someone, keep your ear out”? [/b] 3. You might have to steel yourself to approaching men rather than waiting for them to approach you. Doesn’t have to be anything major, even saying something like “hey, that’s a cool shirt/watch/hat/whatever” is enough to put it in play and any guy worth your time who is available will take it from there in my experience. [/quote]

PP, it would be much better to say "hey, I’m looking to meet someone, [b]keep your head on a swivel[/b]," OK?[/quote]

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