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[quote=Anonymous]Sometimes i feel resentment for my partner, hard to get in the mood for sex. I used to enjoy sex alot when younger. Now im older and have lower need for it, don't even think about it most of the time (not even the hot guys at the gym). I guess i'm perimenopausal at 39. I feel bad as i know he wants it. I feel responsible to do something, and its supposed to be mutually beneficial. i guess this mindset is hard to feel desire the way it used to. The other option is let him have a side piece, but that has other issues, maybe ill get jealous and my body will get attraction back, or maybe ill want a side piece too and then the marriage is over. Perhaps i just need to stop being rigid and try to be flirtatious again. Started HRT recently, see what happens.. [/quote]
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