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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My MIL recently did something very very hurtful and toxic to me. She is a narcissist and is coming to visit in a few weeks and I need help with boundaries. I usually text her about once a week - pics of the kids, etc but have pulled back the last months. When I told her how hurtful he actions were she completely turned it around and wouldn't even have a convo. How do I handle that without causing drama or forcing my husband to end his relationship? [/quote] Why is she visiting when there is known tension? Have your husband handle his mother and preferable before she arrives and makes you a guest in your own home. [/quote] She is a narcissist who can’t acknowledge past trauma or actions, and thinks that pretending like things never happened is the way to go, so she is coming and acting like none of it ever happened. I am more of a normal person who has to process and work through toxic people and she is definitely toxic [/quote]
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