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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For me it was when he started ordering Espresso Martinis. I thought "Christ, what next, Cosmos?" They were so so out of character for him. And then there were a million other little signs and I was correct about the affair but the Espresso Martini really gave me pause. I've read that narcissists (which he likely is) often mirror the person they are fixated on. His AP is definitely an Espresso Martini girl.[/quote] Finding clothing in the trunk of his car and other places that didn’t belong to me. A winter coat, small sized women’s gloves….[/quote] Come to think of it I found a pair of women's underwear in the laundry that were not mine and were not familiar to me as belonging to my teen dd. I didn't think too long and hard about that - could have belonged to one of dd's friends, but he left so many f%$#ing clues once I made a mental note about that [b]ridiculous basic b%tch cocktail[/b].[/quote] I'm in a fairly new relationship (not cheating) with a woman who has ordered that before. Neither of us drinks very often mostly do to responsibilities and habit, and it was for an occasion. What's wrong with it?[/quote]
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