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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ladies go and talk to an OB GYN who has an expertise in sexual health. Not just somebody who will gaslight you.   In the DC area Dr Rachel Rubin’s practice is phenomenal.  I was like all of you, zero interest, 50 yrs old, after 4 months on HRT including testosterone gel I feel much better and am starting to feel desire come back.  I’m not going to lie I’m not back to my 20 something self but those days are gone.  To be open to having sex and interested much of the time has been a big change for me.  Also, weekly therapy has helped address other issues in our marriage.[/quote]

Nobody is gaslighting anybody. It is not abnormal for women in their 40s, getting past childbearing age, to not desire or be totally turned off by sex. There is nothing wrong with any of these women.

Now, the question is do they want to keep the status quo or not? If they don't, then yes there are medical interventions like you describe. But these interventions are to reverse/change what nature has intended. And there is nothing wrong with that either.

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LOL If you frame that is a husband problem, i.e. husband is asked to be celibate against his will for the next 30+ years, watch how fast it becomes abnormal! [/quote]

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