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This is exactly how I feel. I loved her but the betrayal makes me want to die. I was used and disrespected for 20 years. I gave her everything I could give and I get this in return. She is duplicitous and immoral and you’d never, never think she’d cheat, not the way she moralizes. Appearance is all to her. I fell for it too. She volunteers, donates to the right causes, organizes the fundraisers: if you met her, you’d think she is thoroughly decent and honorable. But no: she has a secret life, a  side to her that no one but I see. And she secretly takes pills too. I look in her eyes — they will not meet mine — and I see the inner turmoil and rage that she tries so hard to hide. And the trainer? Bankruptcies, legal problems, follows porn stars and gambling accounts on Twitter. I threw it all away . . .

[quote=Anonymous]We all do and it is way closer to 60%.  It doesn’t make it any easier being the faithful husband being part of the majority that is impacted by betrayal.  As soon as you start sharing your story, you realize how widespread immorality has become.

The fact that the relationship and spouse that you invested everything in and valued so much, can be had for nothing but unsolicited interest breaks you.   You realize that the world and God are working against you, personally.  Then they decide the marriage is what they want, but only lies and deceit remain where possibility once lived. Your life is over, this is what you deserve because you are worthless and unlovable and your spouse is disgusting and cowardly.  You want revenge, you lose interest in people and many days you just want to die, but love for your kids keeps you from any satisfaction.

If I had the chance to erase it all, I wouldn’t hesitate for a minute.  [/quote][/quote]

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