Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Tweens and Teens
Reply to "6th grader wants to wear off shoulder and belly button showing tops"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think a belly button is sexual. Nor a shoulder. I let my dd wear these things because she’s comfortable in her body and I never was, I’m glad she has that confidence. If another kid gets turned on by her shoulder that’s not something I can control. People have foot fetishes but we all wear sandals and flip flops in the summer. [/quote] +1. I got so much negative feedback on my outfits, Hair, etc etc. when I was a teen. I’m just not doing it. I want her to be confident as she goes into the world, not be finding fault with every part of her and every decision she makes. [b]We talk about what’s appropriate to wear in different circumstances and that’s it.[/b] [/quote] Is there really any other good way to handle it than the bolded? And maybe a little bit about self-presentation or values, but otherwise, it's mostly appropriateness isn't it?[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
