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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with men getting angry at women is that women get scared violence may be coming. Men never worry that they'll get beat up or killed by a woman when they are in an argument with them.

OP, is it possible you made her feel unsafe? [/quote]

Not a chance. I did get kind of heated and she told me to that I needed to bring it down and not yell. She didn’t leave until I told her she was a liar.[/quote]

I wouldn't stay if someone called me a liar and I had to tell them not to yell. My DH has rarely yelled in our 25 year marriage. While I know he wouldn't harm me, I find it distressing and it will cause me to shut down entirely and try to get away from the situation.

OP, likely she's having a serious "think."

Assuming you understand that yelling and name calling is unacceptable, I would give it a day or two then reach out with a text. First, apologize for your behavior. Second ask to meet at her convenience (and on her timeline) to talk.

You want to give her space- controlling behavior at this point is going to make things worse.

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