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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD16 doesn't like being home alone so we never leave her alone but she also does not like going outside alone because of a weird kidnapping fear, so if your DD is fine with it then it's completely okay.[/quote] Your kid needs therapy, stat. [/quote] It's something we have been trying to get her to do. But she physically refuses to go.[/quote] Therapy via Zoom. [/quote] She refuses both types. We have tried taking away all types of privileges but nothing helped. We've told her she'll always be living in fear if she doesn't participate but she says she does not care and thinks its normal. We can't physically force her to do anything.[/quote] Have her committed to a mental hospital. You need to meet with a therapist to find out how to get her there. [/quote] You need to meet with a therapist weekly to get advice about what to do next. This probably does not include sending her to a mental hospital but you do need lots of advice about how to not accommodate her, at a minimum.[/quote] That's what DH and I have been doing the past couple months and the main piece of advice that she gave us is to wait it out until she's ready so we have done everything we can.[/quote] You need a new therapist. They are telling you the path of least resistance, but not anything to actually help your daughter grow and get over her irrational fears.[/quote]
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