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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you write about this over and over and over again, and I recognize your posts and story every time. Jeff even wrote about you being a lost soul. Why do you do this to yourself?[/quote]

DP. Even if that's the case, maybe having a bit of sympathy would be wise? if she's making the same post repeatedly she's probably attempting to process things and make a wise choice, and still somewhat traumatized by what happens. Try some empathy- your life will improve, I promise.[/quote]

These are both OP. At some point, womem need to take responsibility for their own happiness. You cannot tether yourself to someone who abused you horrifically and expect things to not haunt you. I am honestly sick of women doing this to themselves.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/105/1176795.page#26549738

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1138007.page[/quote]

What's your point? And what about asking for advice from other women suggests OP is not "taking responsibility for their own happiness"? Sounds like OP is doing exactly that and trying to get her thoughts together regarding a massive betrayal and potential life change (divorce)

[b]Again, please work on your own empathy.[/b] You being triggered by "women doing this to themselves" shouldnt be OP's problem. [/quote]

You say "again" as if anyone didn't hear you the first time and as we have a responsibility to do a darn thing you say? We don't. You demand "show empathy" is coming from a place of arrogance and contempt anyway--you just want us to agree with your perspective and you obscure the nature of your opinion by calling it empathetic. No, it is just what you think and want. [/quote]

You can do whatever you want, engage in whatever hostile and antisocial behavior you want, and yes, get called out. Are you embarrassed and angry now because you realize what an a-hole you sound like? [/quote]

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