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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I sometimes have a drink while preparing dinner. It’s not about not having time. You sound very self-righteous, OP. Sounds to me like your DH is lounging and drinking while you do all the work of making dinner and you’re resentful. [/quote] No just as I’ve gotten older I don’t find it to be particularly relaxing - it’s a stimulant. It’s bad for sleep, I can feel the effects the next day and now with all the cancer stuff … if it’s not a relaxed social event why would you bother? I can’t think of any of my favorite relaxation pastimes (besides sitting and chatting with friends on the patio on a sunny day) that it would improve - it’s a social lubricant - and every difficult thing in my life would only be made worse by drinking. I see so many peers in their 40s and 50s who have tipped over from “fun” social drinkers to people who sit at home and drink too much while “relaxing”. Seems like a shitty way to live. [/quote]
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