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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What job did she get after 20 years out of the workforce? If you’re expecting her to work something menial and comparing it to your job which she enabled then she has a point. If she is in a fulfilling and respectable role, you may have a point. But if 10-15 hours per week at the job is making a difference to your ability to fund college for your kids something is up.[/quote] +1 This is what I am not understanding….. I can’t imagine this PT job, after 20hours out of the workforce, pays much. And if it makes an actual difference in the finances….something else is up. Spending/budgeting problem. How have they managed for 20yrs? I do think the wife should have a job. Absolutely. But am confused as to the financial situation here. Makes zero sense. [/quote]
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