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[quote=Anonymous]If you want to stay with this guy then you should attempt therapy. It’s possible he doesn’t realize how his lack of involvement and immaturity is affecting you, but will listen if a third party tells him. Frankly, I can’t imagine being married to a man who needs to be *told* to fully participate in a family move. But what’s done is done and I understand if you don’t want to subject your kids to a broken home and lifestyle change. If therapy doesn’t work and you still want to stay, then you need to work on accepting the fact that he will exhibit this behavior forever. Don’t engage in constant battles with him because that will make the home unpleasant for the kids and defy the purpose of staying with him. Instead, find ways to make yourself happy, whether that’s by hiring help, carving out time for your own interests and friends, etc.[/quote]
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