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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did he say why he wants a divorce?  Did he meet someone else, or is he just generally unhappy in the marriage?  If it is the former, get out now.  If it is the latter, perhaps he is having  a mid-life or existential crisis that is not wholly about the marriage.  In that case, you need to decide if it worth the effort to convince him to go to counseling, etc.  [/quote]

As if [b]“I’m unhappy, I deserve more,”[/b] is an actual reason when you have a spouse, kids and a house.

He’s hiding the real reason. You’ll know eventually, but not now.[/quote]

Unfortunately, a lot of divorces are for just that reason.  Some people are selfish and will always but [b]their own happiness first[/b].
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According to many unhinged ladies of dcum, this is a valid reason for divorce[/quote]

But men put their happiness first in so many marriages, creating what you called "unhinged ladies".  Men are willing to stick out marriages because their needs are adequately met because they put them first.  Women, instead of divorcing, try acting like a man within the context of your marriage - put your needs first, certainly before your husband, but also your kids.   Let all the house and parenting work default to him while you meet your needs.  Then, instead of the "unhinged ladies of dcum" we'll have the "unhinged men of dcud". [/quote]

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