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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just to be a counterweight here, I'm not sure there's enough information to make a decision this definitely. It sounds like he's doing this after the kids are in bed? So they never see him like this. Is it every night? Is the only point of contention /gaslighting about the drinking itself? Or does it entail other claims? I can see that this could be salvaged if some of these are one way.[/quote] OP here, he starts drinking daily at about 6:00 or when he gets home after work, whichever is earlier. He doesn’t get drunk until after the kids go to sleep but sometimes he would be drunk before their bedtime and talk to the kids non stop way past their bed time (like he gets chatty, at times he is mean to the kids but not often) He told me he only drinks beer but I often find vodka hidden in water bottles or weird places. So far the lying and gaslighting is only related to alcohol as far as I can tell. [/quote]
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