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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP HERE - I am happy to work with him to go to therapy, and try meds, and believe in marriage through it all, but he is refusing to do so. My kids are older teens and have called him on his behavior over and over, and are also fed up. He is angry, has outbursts, threatens to leave us, etc, then comes back and wants to forget it ever happened, place blame on them and me, etc. It is a cycle. He did contact a lawyer recently, changed his mind again and now changed his mind back. He is showing to be irrational and he used to be so sane. He also has a LOT of unresolved childhood trauma that he won't deal with. I am at a loss of how to help him and protect myself, and am scared to be alone. [/quote]

Very immature on his part.
Then the teen kids are all looped into his back and forth antics. 
This is simply not  good for anyone of you all.

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I agree.  OP, try not to triangulate this with kids.  I'd try to shield them as much as possible.  If I had a house full of hysterical people, I might walk out in the evenings too[/quote]

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