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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like very controlling behavior, yes. May I ask why you are still at home? Is this because of work/money or social challenges?[/quote] I can afford to live on my own. But I play peacemaker. Like as we speak right now my mom is going on a tangent and all of us are taking it cause were used to it. If i dont live here my mom wont talk to anyone. She constantly says she doesnt know what she would do without me. And that shes so happy that i live at home. Thats not okay because it gives me a burden of not living my life[/quote] You cannot blame that on your mom. You elect to take that on so own it. As for whether the behavior is abusive - I agree with PP that you don’t need to label it. It makes you feel bad so deal with that too. You are making yourself the victim when you let people do this to you. This isn’t something you’re incapable of dealing with. You just choose not to. [/quote]
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