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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you an as generous with equally shouldering bills and expenses or is he covering more than his half because you like to live it up and save? [/quote]

He has been covering his bills. I buy our groceries and pay anytime we go out. I pay my own car insurance, gas, and my own phone bill. I also have taken over in other areas. I do almost all the cooking, laundry, and shopping for us. We came to this agreement because he said I didn’t need to pay for what he was already paying. [/quote]
Welp I guess I should have read all the replies. This is the problem. [b]He actually ISN’T comfortable covering all bills, and his criticism is a passive aggressive way of telling you this. Sounds like he thinks “if she can afford all this crap why can’t she pay some rent”. [/b]
I still assert that it’s your money, but I was also basing my answer on you paying your own share/adult way. Which you are not. Soo idk now. Definitely a conversation in order, but I don’t think he’s *that* out of line if you aren’t contributing to house expenses, but saving and splurging on yourself.[/quote]

DP. Same here. I was Team OP until I kept reading and it appears OP isn't paying rent/mortgage. Then BF sees all her pampering and he's no longer okay with her not paying 50/50 on that.[/quote]

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