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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She's right. She's not the one who's doing the cheating. His is the home wrecker in his marriage, not her.

However, I would tell her I don't want to hear about it at all. Because I don't. And I sure wouldn't let her around anyone I'm romantically involved in. [/quote]

This is SO disgustingly WRONG.

EVERYONE in a community has responsibility to one another, including to the preservation of marriages and families especially those in which children are being raised.

The publication of banns of marriage - banns being an old English word meaning proclamation - in the church or town council was meant to allow for anyone to bring forward any known impediments to the marriage, and it also serves as a public declaration of the joining of two persons in a union we are all meant to respect.

Single people who sleep with married people are also ADULTERERS. They are equally responsible because we ALL owe respect to marriage vows, not only to our own.

Infidelity is not the married person's problem only. I am affronted by people who take this position and I have ended friendships over it and also kicked out a law school roommate who wanted to bring his lover home to our place while I had to look at the photos of his wife and 5 kids back in CA on our fridge. I kicked him out and ratted him out to his wife, too - I really hope she dumped him.

Stop excusing scummy women and men who interfere in marriages, it's amoral behavior. Don't whine about the heart wants what it wants either - your heart doesn't fall for a married person if you take the hard bright line of staying away from them except in the most platonic of interactions.[/quote]

+1  Adultery and marriages/families being broken is a societal problem.  Too many people turn a blind eye and ignore it.  It should (and used to be) a punishable crime.  That poor mom is going to be left a single mother with a new baby and likely a deadbeat dad.[/quote]

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