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[quote=Anonymous]Your brother is to blame here, not SIL. Why didn’t you say something about last time? Extremely rude of him. I’d say “sure” to any plans but keep expectations low. That said, any idea why SIL doesn’t seem to like you? Any hope of improving the relationship? Just asking because I don’t like my SIL either. She talked about me behind my back early in the marriage- said some really mean things that got back to me. I definitely haven’t ever kept DH and the kids (now teens) from seeing her but I avoid her myself whenever possible. In the vacation scenario I’d have skipped at least one of the family meals but encouraged DH and kids to go. That being said, they see each other less than they would if SIL and I got along. Are you certain you have not done something to upset SIL? Have you ever gently asked? Maybe something was misunderstood at some point along the way? NOT saying you have done anything wrong, just throwing it out there. [/quote]
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