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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oooh boy.

I'm the PP in the 10+ year EA.

Every situation is nuanced... and I think many EAs are based in love and respect.

If he is 10 years younger... he's looking for a story. DO NOT. I REPEAT DO NOT go there.  He is not your equal. He has nothing in common with you. Generation. He has never had kids.  You are not going to have a few more kids with this guy.

It screams heartache and massive life f@ckup.

RUN.

And yes.. to all that asked.. it would be better to divorce and be together until you calculate the massive destruction to 4 kids still living at home and  the nightmare that comes with divided assets in divorce--not to mention the plethora of reasons we married these people. My parents chose who I married...not unlike many cultures around the world.  I had expectations, obligations...it doesn't make the affair of the heart any less acceptable. But you can't help who you fall for.  If it had only been a few months earlier...

What I do know if that we've been highly committed to one another, without sex, for years. It's not lust or fantasy. It's love and it's swallowed me whole.

Run OP. RUN. [/quote]

OP. To be clear, I don’t want an actual relationship or anything with him. I don’t care if it’s a story for him.

It’s more, I get little attention from my H, I don’t see what the harm in me getting attention elsewhere is. [/quote]

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