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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I recently started setting boundaries, but the main persons in my life don't respect them or become aggressive about them. I really try, but it's not working at all. The last resort would be to remove those people from my life but it's difficult because these people include H and other close family members. I see that the common denominator is me - I let people walk all over me, and people take advantage. So what should I do?[/quote] Be like a two year old and learn to say "No." Just keep saying "No" until it becomes an ingrained habit. That's really all you need to do. Say "No." Keep saying "No" and eventually you will modify your relationships in a better diirection respecting of your boundaries. No explanations are necessary: Just say "no" and just keep saying it over and over and over....[/quote]
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