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[quote=Anonymous]Posters are giving you great advice, OP, I hope you carefully consider what they have to say. They're right about the central issue: this is about your daughter, not about you. That said, it's so completely understandable that you're feeling frustrated with your ex - it sounds like he's been/being difficult. I completely get that and really feel for you. It's frustrating and infuriating! On the other hand, as posters are telling you, he's actually contributing in significant ways to your child's support. If you take steps like the ones you're talking about, then you may very well end up stirring the pot. I don't think you'll like the result. You want to be assertive and firm, and draw boundaries so he doesn't push too far, but right now, the situation you're describing doesn't call for the kind of responses you're considering. Right now, the best response seems to be to maintain the status quo. If he steps out of line in the future, okay, maybe then it's time to take action. Not now.[/quote]
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