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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your problem is not marriage in general, it’s your husband in particular.

I’m coming up in my 20th wedding anniversary, 3 kids, 43F and I don’t relate to the feelings you share here because my husband is a responsible adult. He’s a c-suite executive at work and a caring, hands on dad at home.

I can take off for a week tomorrow and not worry a lick. I don’t have to prepare anything ahead of time, I don’t have to arrange babysitters, I don’t have to make a long detailed schedule. He knows it all and is on top of it because he is their father and an equal co-parent.

Your husband is dead weight dragging you down. If I were you, I’d get your butts into couple counseling and tell him you are going to divorce if he doesn’t shape up asap. You’re better off as a single mom at this point because at least then, you wouldn’t be tormenting yourself about thoughts like “is this it?”[/quote]

She married a dud.[/quote]

Yup. And it's so hard to tell at 25 how they will turn out. I med DH at 29 and he was military and knew how to iron and clean and take care of himself. He is out now but the discipline stayed. He runs the house better than I do, I'm just a better cook. It's amazing and the kids adore him and he plans vacations, college funds, home repairs etc etc. So glad I didn't marry my college BFs who both turned out to be like OPs DH and ended up with lovely women who pull all the weight in their families. [/quote]

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