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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having worked in family law there are all kinds of reasons women can lose custody. A lot of times they have vindctive ex husbands who will spend any amount of money to punish their ex wife for leaving them. [b]Courts are biased against women[/b], most judges/lawyers/police officers are male.

On the other hand, sure, sometimes there are bad moms who did bad things. It's really hard to judge just from the loss of custody alone. [/quote]

Yeeeaaahhhh, no. Pretty much every single dad I know had an uphill battle with custody. It was just assumed the mom would get them.[/quote]

Yeah, that's just a cope and a lie from men. Most men dont even seek out custody but will lie and tell everyone that their wife "stole their kids" because they dont want to seem like a jerk of a dad.The reality is the court system almost uniformly favors men [/quote]

You know it's not. You're trotting out an old sexist trope.

When was the last time you were at a soccer game, pediatrcians office, tot lot, etc. It's about 60/40 women vs men. This isn't the 50s anymore, sweetie.[/quote]

At some of our activities it’s mainly dads.  [/quote]

I was a SAHD for 3.5 years and there were plenty of us. Women hated us. The two faced questions I got were hilarious

"Oh, is today visitation day?"
"Wow, you're such a good dad taking your 2 year old to the park on your lunch break!"
"Still on paternity leave?" when I had my 2 year old and newborn together.

Make no mistake, the comments were meant to hurt.

It's a weird hate SAHMs have for SAHDs. And this was in 'progressive' Oakland at the time.[/quote]

Sorry, what's so wrong or viciously evil about these comments?

You sound extremely sensitive. [/quote]

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