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[quote=Anonymous]You are a bad parent. I am the daughter in a family where the son is like yours, and he ruined our lives by holding the entire family hostage with his nonsense for decades. And like you, my parents enabled him (and ignored me and my needs completely) because they were always putting out fires for dysfunctional brother. He’s holding the threat of suicide over your heads to hold you hostage so you’ll continue enabling. Guess what? My brother dropped out of (T20, full pay for my parents) college anyway, still did drugs, has never held a steady job, and at 40 still lives at home with some chronic health problems, and is just generally a mean, ungrateful, unpleasant person. All that snowplowing my parents did for him his whole life did NOTHING. Your enabling is not ever going to help this kid. Drop the rope. Focus on your daughter, your spouse, yourself. Stop letting the threat of suicide make you enable this kid forever.[/quote]
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