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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]This is why so much dating advice for women basically boils down "be a bi**h". Because, unfortunately, nice women get taken advantage of, because men are inherently self centered and going to advocate for themselves. That's why you see so many men who sit around and do nothing while their wives exhaust themselves cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kids. And the men will feel literally zero guilt about it.[/quote]

Does "be a bi**h" work in any other relationship? Does it work with your friends, coworkers, kids? No. It does not.

Sister, if your man is sitting around doing nothing while you exhaust yourself, he may think he married beneath himself and does not need to put forth any effort. And that is on you.

Please elaborate on your theory that men are inherently self-centered. Is your dad self-centered? Your brothers? Your sons?

Do you think the women your sons date (or marry) should be "a bi**h" to them? Or should they show the men they (and you) love respect and expect to receive it in return?[/quote]

If men displayed a quarter of the weaponized incompetence they perform at home they would be fired immediately at work. That's why they save their feigned inability to complete basic tasks for the home, and guilt women into doing everything for them. Many of them will brag about what great husbands/fathers they are, meanwhile theyve literally never scheduled a single pediatrician appointment nor do they know their children's birthdays. But they will tell everyone how present they are, how they do half the work at home, how enlightened they are. That's because the version of themselves men present in public is very different from the version they give to their wives and to a certain extent children. So yes, if these men acted in the same dysfunctional ways they treat their wives with, everyone would treat them in a "bi**hy" way and they would be fired and unemployed very quickly. Men will do whatever they feel they can get away with, and that included taking advantage of nice/sweet girls by foisting labor on her, stringing her along, treating her badly. The only solution is to give them the same lack of grace their bosses/male associates give them, be equally as selfish and self serving, and make them aware they have to act right or theyll be thrown away. [/quote]

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