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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You were a bit of an AH. Your son is young to have lost a parent and he’s naturally more affected by grief than you do you have a responsibility to be less reactive and more understanding. (Source: I have step siblings mourning their dad who was an absolutely awful stepparent and I manage to empathize with their grief and not bring up my gripes with their dad while also maintaining boundaries or faking a level of grief I don’t have.) [/quote] Don't your step-siblings owe it to you to find another shoulder to cry on? If they are aware you were treated poorly by the deceased, why come to you with their sorrow?[/quote] That would be nice but it’s not like they are doing it all the time (and nor is OP’s son.) also, I do feel like the person who is not torn up by grief has more of a responsibility to take the high road and be gracious than the person who is actively grieving (and 29 is very young for loss of a parent.) [/quote]
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