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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My advice to women is to never, ever, ever marry a man who has children. Never. No matter how old they are.

This is especially important if you have children of your own. You will find that your kids may accept your new partner but your man's kids will rarely, if ever, accept YOU.

Children have an instinctive loyalty bond to their mothers. That never goes away.

If you want a serious relationship then live together. Do not mix your finances.  Make sure you always have your own place to return to or at least enough money earmarked to move out and start over again.

Do NOT have children with a man who has other children. You will forever be in a tug-of-war over who gets more attention, resources, etc. And this does not end when they become adults.

Read any posts on-line and you will see any woman who is in a "stepmother" position is hated. It doesn't matter who you are, what you do or don't do, it will never be right.

You will be the perpetual villain.

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+1000 
It never works.. Sorry [/quote]

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