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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP from your original post you already know that your neighbor was not using "tiny" as a derogatory term.  You also know that you were very unkind in your comment that  your neighbor's child looked ridiculous. Let it go OP. We all stick our foot in our mouth from time to time.

Next, time you see your neighbor go out of your way to say something positive about her 18 month old. You could also explain to her (without mentioning her specifically) that you are sensitive to people calling your baby tiny.

Babies are tiny though, it is part of their charm. You will likely hear people describe your child as tiny for awhile and it is not meant to be offensive. [/quote]

We ALL say things we regret and sometimes they are and sometimes they are not warranted.  Given this, I like the suggestion above.  You don't know if she heard so you can't say anything outright.  But you can mention you are really sensitive about your baby's size and that it sometimes brings out your worst side.  Then say something nice about her healthy looking tot and move on.[/quote]

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