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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend’s husband and I have near identical jobs in a niche industry. We are both so excited to talk about how crazy it is and we do talk for nearly the entire time (we’re both just waiting around at the event we have to be at). We’re both very happily married (at least I am. He seems happy). My friend seemed distant so I’ve been making a point of ignoring the guy. Loved hearing about his work though! My own husband wouldn’t care at all- he’s not a jealous type and I’d never cheat.

The whole thing has made me realize you just can’t have opposite sex friends. Kind of sad, but I think that’s the line. [/quote]

I agree with this. As someone who found out the person I’m with really crossed the line with a female “friend” I feel like it’s better not to have opposite sex friends. [/quote]

This seems unrealistic especially for those with kids (especially if younger and still often attending birthday parties , play dates etc. where parents mingle ).

I do think it often comes down to physically touching someone the way you wouldn’t touch a friend of the same sex.  Pat on the back or shoulder - probably Ok.  Arm around someone, long hug or rubbing their back or leg - probably not Ok.  Tongue kissing or touching private parts - definitely not Ok.  I’d also find holding hands to be pretty violating.

Would also say inviting opposite sex friends out for one on one meet ups that might resemble dates don’t seem advisable.  Even if meant to be harmless, risk of being seen by others , and of crossing lines above if drinks are involved.  [/quote]

I think non-parenting friends is different from parenting friends. With parenting friends, you only schedule time to hang out with the kids at kid friendly events or without kids but at school type functions. With personal friends, you make one on one plans. [/quote]

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