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[quote=Anonymous]You need to completely change the way you go about your day. Even if you are faking it for now.

You want people to initiate with you, pick you, make you feel seen. Start doing this for others. You are not entitled to that which you are not even giving to others.

Begin noticing people, engage in conversation, make eye contact, smile, reflect back interest etc. it doesn’t have to be overly performative. It’s more of a shift.

In the meantime you absolutely must get yourself help and support. Take an exercise class, start interviewing therapists, get yourself some spirituality or self healing books.

Even if you engage with someone and get dates the issues that brought you to this moment in life and the sense of self loathing will come into any relationship you try to create with others. This will require ongoing repair and work. Start now. Your life can look and feel very different but it will require a lift! There is no short cut to the joy and satisfaction you seek.

Be empowered and hopeful that there are things you can be instead of feeling downtrodden.[/quote]

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