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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d ask for partners.  I know people lie about how many but if it’s too many I’m out.

[b]If they’re “parents” and never see their kids I’d ask why or what’s going on with that.  [/b]

If their credit is bad or they have bankruptcies or something I’m also out (I’m a male).  I don’t want to date leeches.

If they have a criminal background I’m also out.

I would also check online for their names.  I’ve been out on dates more than once with what turned out to be onlyfans women.  They were looking for relationships and that’s fine, but it won’t be with me.

So yeah past matters a lot when you’ve built up a career and livelihood.  I have a good financial and personal life and don’t want it ruined and past behavior is sometimes a predictor or future actions.   I have no debt, no kid issues and no drama.  I paid outright for my nice cars and have enough built up to pay for kids school and will be mortgage free in a few years.  So if someone is bringing in a bunch of trash I’m taking it out with the rest of the garbage [/quote]

Yeah, that is the biggest dealbreaker. [/quote]

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