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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My guess is the H wants full custody since OP is primary earner. He is saying she works too much. All a guise for getting more money in child support from her in order to support himself. [/quote] So, it’s ok for a woman to want full custody for the child support but not the man? If [b]op is the primary earner then he is the primary parent and should get full custod[/b]y. [/quote] Sadly that’s not how the division of labor works in most households and higher-earning women are still the primary parent in most cases. Which will be easy to demonstrate. But yes OP your ex can and will drag this out for seven years. Once your kids are old enough (11-13 ish depending on the judge) their views will be taken into account by the court.[/quote] OP here. I am the primary parent. Very easy to demonstrate this too. I am the higher earner. Thankfully my kids are 11 now and will probably be 12 by the time they see a judge. Honestly, it is not his love and care for the kids that is motivating him at all to go high-conflict. But I'm sure some of you understand this completely. [/quote]
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