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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] and, friendly reminder, just because you paid for entry to the school, certainly doesn't mean youre accepted by the other parents there or treated with the same level of regard/acceptance[/quote]

Wow, you really are not a good person. What an ugly thing to say, jfc. Of note, you’re exactly the type of person whose opinion OP fears. But good for you for proving why she shouldn’t care. [/quote]

But I mean, after you made some really mocking and nasty posts directed towards the OP's fairly distressing life situation, how can you possible morally grandstand and act so outraged when you get the same treatment? That's what baffling. In many cultures around the world, a single mom by choice may be judged much more harshly than a divorced mom. Maybe that's not the case wherever you are, but in many places, a single mom by choice may be interpreted as being unable to maintain relationships, lacking interpersonal skills, etc. I'm not even saying I agree with that or trying to direct that at you, but the incredibly smug incredulity you expressed that "How could OP [i]EVER[/i] think theyre better than me when they got themselves into this position?" is so deeply hypocritical and condescending that it almost boggles the mind. And maybe when you can understand that others don't necessarily share the same opinion you have, and could judge you just as harshly, maybe you won't come into a thread with such condescension towards a young woman clearly going through a horrible time and needing some empathy. [/quote]

Stop. You’re looking for a fight and this thread is about OP. Poster upthread who objected to being called a walking pariah probably did knee-jerk react. Would you appreciate that term? And you snidely suggesting that parents at second poster’s private are looking down on her for being single is awful and grossly classist. [b]Women do not need more judgment, single moms especially.[/b] Contribute to the thread for OP or leave it alone (and stop insulting single moms in general, who are not your “entertainment”). [/quote]

Completely agree, which is why all the single moms who came into this thread bashing OP for her situation are so wrong and deserve to get it right back. I hope this thread can move into a more productive direction rather than smug "C-suite level" single moms mocking OP for being in a bad relationship. What a truly bizarre and pathetic display of internalized misogyny [/quote]

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